Help Me, I’m Wasting Time Looking at Pornography!

Wasting time is one reason people contact me for help to stop or cut back on looking at sexually explicit images and videos. There are other reasons too. And there are reasons people start to use pornography in the first place. Opening up about about your relationship with pornography is a first step you can… Continue reading Help Me, I’m Wasting Time Looking at Pornography!

Sustainable Psychotherapy: What is Eco Friendly Counselling and Where to find a Green Therapist

We are increasingly being encouraged to reduce, reuse and recycle and be mindful of the impact our activities have on the environment. In deciding to make changes to their lives, many people question their own place in consumer culture, the way they are living and their relationships to others. How can talk therapy and counselling… Continue reading Sustainable Psychotherapy: What is Eco Friendly Counselling and Where to find a Green Therapist

Advice or Therapy? Taking a Collaborative Approach with Your Therapist

People are always asking me for advice. I regularly receive requests over email, via my websites and even on Facebook asking me for advice or direction with particular problems or difficulties. Often these requests are for relationship advice, or advice about how to find confidence or how to develop certain ‘communication skills’. It is not… Continue reading Advice or Therapy? Taking a Collaborative Approach with Your Therapist